Dirty guys ( and not in a good way)

Is it isn't Me or are some guys really not that fussed about cleanliness. Seriously, personal hygiene has to be a big thing if your going to be having sex with someone, Especially anal sex right? Then why is it that some guys don't seem to get it?

I had a guy message me last night on Grindr who wanted to meet straight away. He was a bottom and I was keen to fuck sombody so I was up for it. He sId he had just got hije from work but could come over in 5 minutes. When I said to him, do you not need to shower etc, he replied 'no, it will be ok. I have been working all day but I'm not sweaty'. Then when I asked him about doucheing he had no idea what I was in about. I could understand if this guy was younger and a little inexperienced, but he was in his late twenties so surely he should be aware of these things.
I declined meeting with him and blocked him.
It's not a regular thing that I get with a guy who hasn't showered before hand, but on the odd occasion it has happened it may have been a impulse fuck or not planned. But this guy last night had plenty if time to shower and just didn't want to.

For those of you that don't know what a douche is, it's a device that has a pump one end that you can fill with water and thin long nozzle that you slide up your ass and pump with water to clean. There are many different types , and there are other ways to make sure you are clean downstairs.

I have been to a few orgies before and the guy who organises it stressed about cleanliness. Surely it's just polite. How can you expect somebody to go into your pants and up your ass if you haven't prepared yourself for it first?

One of my friends told me once he hooked up with a guy and when they got down to it, the guy clearly hadn't washed downstairs and his ass was 'messy' before they even got to the sex! My friend didn't go through with it.

I know some guys are into that kind of thing, but I would say the majority aren't. Maybe I'm wrong?

To all you dirty guys out there..... Use some soap!!